Nicole Richie has hit back at claims she had sex with an ex-drug addict movie star in a toilet. One time heroin addict Jason Mewes, who shot to fame in the cult comedy 'Clerks', allegedly romped with the 'Simple Life' star in a lavatory during a showbiz party, according to long-time friend, director Kevin Smith.

The filmmaker - whose films include 'Jersey Girl', 'Dogma' and 'Mallrats -told an audience of students, during a speech at the University Of Pennsylvania, the 24-year-old beauty "pulled Jay into a bathroom and just sat on him and started going at it" during the bash two-and-a-half years ago.

But Nicole, the adopted daughter of 80s pop legend Lionel Richie, hasfuriously denied the claims.

Her spokeswoman, Cindy Guagenti, said: "She didn't know his real name until I explained. Then she said, 'I met him but, ewwwww! Are you kidding me? I've never had sex with him'."

I don’t know about nasty sex in a bathroom, but i see those jeans in like every photo of her. Nice mercedes…

I’m willing to bet Nicole can’t remember half of the things OR people she did when she was strung out.  I’m surprised she didn’t have a Jay and Silent Bob threesome.

Why would anyone even want to sleep with her? She’s nasty and fug.

blackout sex (duh)

SHE is adopted? All this time I thought she actually was Richie’s daughter. ALways wondered why she didnt look anything like both of her parents. So she isnt rock royalty afterall. I dont see why people adopt other ppl’s children. Pro-abortion seems like a better choice than giving them lives where they realize their real parents dont wont them. How sad. Sure adopted children can have better lives but they will never be loved as much as someone’s natural children. Angelina Jolie will see this happen when she gives birth and realizes that Brad Pitt will be MORE CONCERNED about the wellfare of his own child rather than those other two.

they were both heroin addicts back then, i believe it.

i love jay and silent bob, too bad jason mewes decided to fry himself with smack.

WOW…tulip…you are an idiot. I have so many friends who are adopted, and who have adopted, and it is completely ridiculous to say the things you said about adopted children. Most people who adopt children are SO excited to be given the opportunity to have a child. Many of them have tried for years w/out success to have one of their own. At least those kids know they were desperately wanted, and are unconditionally loved. I think the greater tragedy is when one parent walks out on the other and leaves the child always wondering why and blaming themselves.

Not to mention the fact that you JUST realized she was adopted…where have you been for the last 3 years?

“Pro-abortion seems like a better choice than giving them lives where they realize their real parents dont wont them” ok, so aborting a kid is preferable to letting people who really want children adopt them?

“they will never be loved as much as someone’s natural children.” and what study did you use for this brilliant insight into the complexities of adopted families?

i’m sure your parents wish you weren’t their biological child when they hear retarded stuff like this coming out of your mouth. maybe they should have aborted you

p.s. i’m pro-choice, and i think tulip is mentall challenged and shouldn’t be let outside without wearing a helmet

Hey GAMB. i SPOKE THE TRUTH Why the heck do you think couples who arent able to have children naturally go for fertility clinics and medical approaches to have natural children??? Because it is VALUED MORE than getting an adopted child and raising them as your own. Sure its fun to pretend like they are your own , but biologically and unconsciously you want your OWN DNA PASSED on….Thats how our species works. Brad Pitt would feel worse if his own biological child died instead of the black one or that chink one because its his own BLOOD. WHy is that so hard to understand? Maybe because you lack the comprehension skills to figure this out.

Meesh, you seem more meeshed up than you think I am. First of all, people who try hard to have children of their OWN do that in the first place because it is more precious to have ones own biological child. They adopt because that is the LAST RESORT not FIRST. Makes adopted children feel real special huh? My parents arent unhappy with me. They love me. You are just angry becaues your adopted friends feel an emptiness inside knowing that they were unwanted at BIRTH. They go their entire lives wondering what that missing piece of them were like and WHY they were unwanted…..So stop acting like adopted children are sooo happy all the time for being adopted. pure bullshit.

Tulip, I think you lack the comprehension skills to figure out that love is love.  Parents who adopt children love them regardless if they have passed on their DNA or not.

I can’t say that I know anyone personally who has not tried to have their own babies before adopting, but they still love the babies that they have adopted just as much as any child they might bare themselves.

I think you need to spend a little more time outside the little bubble you live your life in.

Tulip, you’re getting your little backlashes confused…not that confusion is something new to you. I was not the person who suggested that your parents were not happy with you. And why would I be angry about how my adopted friends feel anyway? I also said I have friends on BOTH sides of the scenario, and they are all very happy. Yes, just because they were disappointed in their efforts to have their own biological child, in no way implies they have less love to give to an adopted child. They want a child to love and raise…adoption is a lengthy and EXPENSIVE process, and since the majority of people don’t have a problem conceiving, they generally prefer to attempt to have one themselves. But as I’ve already said repeatedly…the amount of LOVE for an adopted child is in no way less.

Gotta love racism

TULIP YOU U R A FUCKIN CUNT. I WAS ADOPTED AND I AM TOTALLY OFFENDED AS TO WHAT YOU SAID. I DONT GIVE A SHIT IF I CAME OUT OF MOM OR NOT. THAT IS MY MOM AND MY DAD AND NO OFFENSE BUT IM SPECIAL IN THAT WAY AND I LOVE IT. I COULD BE LIVING IN SOME DUMP OR HAVE A HORRIBLE LIFE BUT, I WAS RAISED IN A WELL OFF FAMILY WITH GREAT PARENTS AND I WOULD NOT CHANGE IT FOR THE WORLD. YOU CAN GO STRAIGHT TO HELL WITH YOUR STUPID ASS COMMENTS AND REMEMBER WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND YOU FUCKING DUMD ASS CUNT!!!!

THE WORLD WOULD BE BETTER OFF IF YOUR PARENTS WOULD HAVE ABORTED YOU INSTEAD OF SOMEONE WHO WAS ADOPTED. IT IS PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT KEEP IGNORANCE GOING.

IF I OFFENDED ANYONE BY MY LANGUAGE (BESIDES TULIP), IM SORRY, IT JUST MAKES ME SO MAD THAT PEOPLE THAT SPEAK THERE MIND HAVE NOTHING BUT IGNORANCE THAT COME OUT OF IT LIKE TULIP. PREJUDICE, IGNORANT, BRAINLESS, PIECE OF SHIT, REDNECK, DICKHEAD, CUNT. TULIPS ARE PRETTY AND YOU ARE NOT SO YOU SHOULD CHANGE YOUR NAME TO PIECE OF SHIT BECAUSE YOUR VIEWS AND ATTITUDE ARE AS UGLY AS THAT.

I think:

Tulip has balls to say what many people secretly believe.  How many people who are sending hate mail would really adopt? [Rather then having their own biological kid or in addition to their own kid?] Come one it takes a pretty sensitive and secure person to do that…Especially if the kid looks nothing like you

Adoption is:  a last resort for childless couples and/or a vanity exercise for superficial women, who don’t want to get fat, go into labor or have a C section scar.

Adoption can be: a gift to the child and potential parents [who may or may not be childless] and who wouldn’t go through all that shit if they didn’t really want a kid in the first place [although sometimes people wait so long on lists that they don’t really want a kid anymore when it comes and that a whole other issue…]

lol…It really depends what the motives are…

MY PARENTS ADOPTED ME IN 1975 BECAUSE THEY WERE NOT ABLE TO HAVE CHILDREN AND THEY WANTED ONE. YOU ARE JUST AS STUPID AS TULIP. I FEEL PEOPLE ADOPT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO, THEY WANT TO HAVE A CHILD AND THE ONE THEY ADOPT THEY ARE GIVING THEM A GREAT GIFT. MY PARENTS WAITED 3 YRS. UNTIL I CAME ALONG AND THEY STILL WANTED ME. I CAN NOT BELIEVE THIS DAY IN AGE THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO SAY AND FEEL THIS WAY. YOU ALL DONT DESERVE TO BE ABLE TO EVEN USE A COMPUTER OR SPEAK YOUR MINDS BECAUSE IT IS ALL IGNORANCE AND CRUELTY THAT COMES OUT.

MOOSE:

I think it’s sad and misguided that so many people believe that. I am probably one of the people you are putting in the “hate mail” category here…and I definitely would adopt if I were unable to have children. I know I would love them just as much though. Prior to seeing so many happy outcomes from adoption, I may have felt otherwise. But now, due to exposure, I see how happy it can make everyone in the family, and I am all for it.

I definitely agree w/ you that it depends on the motives though. I guess I’ve been lucky enough to only be around people with good motives. :o)

Hey don’t yell @ me sonicboom1975 geez!...I was adopted as a baby too by the way…but unlike you I have a sense of humor and can understand why people like tulip would never adopt.

tulip = racist retard

people like tulip should not even have sex because there could be an accident and then we would have one more ignorant asshole running around.

i would like to add that the chair of my dept. and his wife have adopted 3 girls from china in the last 4 years (the vast majority of kids in orphanages in china are female). he and his wife are capable of having children of their own but they chose not to after seeing an orphanage during trip to China.

i have asked him explicitly why he chose to adopt when he can have kid and why children from another country and he said just b/c he and his wife can have kids doesn’t mean that is the only way they can build a family…and also these children needed desperately to be adopted by loving families b/c the state of orphanages in Asia is such that if the children don’t die young from preventable childhood disease then they will either be sexually enslaved or live out their adults lives as indentured servants.

just b/c some people have a strong biological or emotional need/desire to have their own biological children does not mean that EVERYONE feels the same way. many people chose to adopt b/c they feel there are plenty of children out there who need families more desperately than these parents need to have a child of their own to satisfy some ego craving or biological impulse.

CONGRATULATIONS TULIP!!!!

You’re the first living brain donor.

Honestly, you’re such a moron it’s amazing you can muster up the brain cells required to turn on your computer.  I’m adopted, always felt loved, never felt empty.  Sorry you’re too stupid to understand that love does not depend on DNA. 

And I do think your parents are disappointed with you… they wanted a smart kid.

As for Nicole Richie… what’s with the “eeww” comment?  Does she not remember what she looked like before the anorexia and the nose job?

Wow. They are good people. Saints.  See Tulip some people are selfless…

I have no desire to have biological kids not just because I am adopted [and the whole looking like your parents means nothing to me] but because i don’t want to get fat and labor scares me…hahaha

I think that Tulip is some kid who comes on here to pick fights.  On other posts she has said shit to start fights and stuff that she knows will piss people off.  Either IGNORE TULIP OR LETS GET HER BANNED!

Wow, what sickens me is the amount of hypocrisy on this post. Some of you guys have attacked me with cruel words for what I have said, does that make you a better person than me because I have revealed my secret thoughts about adoption that other ppl also hold to be true.

So good for you that you were adopted and good for you that you will adopt but the bottom line is , ppl PREFER to have their OWN CHILDREN and adopting is the LAST RESORT for a MAJORITY of ppl. Why the heck do you think orphanages around the world are still freakin full???? Because ppl will first try medical methods to have children and if they fail, decide to adopt. People do not want to raise someone else’s children. Plain and simple and Im sorry it sounds rough but the TRUTH HURTS sometimes.

For the two individuals who were adopted, great that you had a good life but do realize that you were never wanted in the first place so dont you dare tell me I should have been aborted. It should have been you because according to statistics its unwanted pregnancies that have contributed to the amount of poverty in this world. These unwanted children should have been aborted from the get-go, but no they have to be a financial drain on the rest of society. People going out and adopting unwanted children isn’t going to help this problem:if anything it makes it an incentive for ppl to have more unwanted children so that someone else can take care of them.

THis is a sad reality of life and Im sorry you see the world through rose colored glasses: if you take them off, perhaps you will see the BLACK n WHITE of things. THou shall not lie , but everytime someone like me tells the truth , society has a need to chastise them. Look what happened to jesus when he revealed the truth that he was gods son: they called him stupid just like you guys are calling me. Please, dont you dare go there.

Aivilis, I dont come here to PICK fights. I come here to reveal a TRUE PERSPECTIVE OF MINE but for some reason, other ppl feel the need to attack my perspectives. They start the fight, NOT ME. It sucks that ppl cannot shut their mouths and listen to the truth about things sometimes. They have to see things as all noble all the time but when I bring up the darker side of things, suddenly Im trying to pick a fight. Makes NO SENSE.

oh tulip, thank you for that post… that has to be the funniest thing I’ve read all day.

You comparing yourself and your ideas to JESUS.

my personal beliefs on that issue are irrelevant… but since you are the one who brought up Jesus… if you truly believe Jesus was telling the truth and that He was the Son of God… you’re also making the point that JOSEPH ADOPTED HIM!!! since he was not his biological son.

Joseph was his BIOLOGICAL father because Mary wasnt a virgin in the sense that she didnt have sex—-> there is a language difference that translated that original meaning of virgin into what it represents today alongside Mary’s image. God was his SPIRITUAL father not his biological one. If your argument was valid, then we are all adopted because we are all god’s children. I dont see whats so funny with me comparing myself to jesus—-> we are both truth tellers and we both endure the punishment of society’s disaproval of us. I see a lot of similarities in my own character with that of jesus. I wouldnt be suprised if indeed Im part of that family lineage.

“everytime someone like me tells the truth”

Tulip…..who’s TRUTH us it?

Sorry….
Who’s truth IS it?

mary and joseph went on to have “biological” children…if Jesus is the Son of God, and the Messiah and all that, then why wouldn’t Joseph’s other “biological” children have the same distinction as the “children of God”, like we all are. Why would the angel have had to go tell Joseph not to leave mary before their marriage if Jesus was truly his “biological” son? When Jesus was born Joseph and Mary were “espoused”=engaged, not yet married. since you know so much “truth” and have obviously translated the Bible from the original text, please enlighten us fools, and all of those christians who have believed in immaculate conception since Jesus was born.

or not… I hate getting into religious debates on this stupid site. i’d rather gossip about celebrities…but alas, idiots like you who think they know everything just get under my skin
I’ve said all I’m going to say on this. (huge sigh of relief from the rest of you, i’m sure) :o)

I would adopt if i couldn’t have children. And i wouldn’t love that child any less than any other child. Now if i had a bio-child and an adopted child, i still wouldn’t love that child less, why would you? Only a selfish insensitve moron would think that or feel that way towards a human baing.

Now what angelina is doing(adopting), i think is very courageous and unselfish. Yea, she can have her own(as we see) but she also saw an opportunity to give another child something that their bio-parents didn’t offer(love and family)

Ok, that’s my 3 cents on the subject.

Come on….piss of this religion shite. That’s for church…..and last time i looked….i saw no steeple protruding from my laptop.
Good one Tulip…..see what you’ve done

WOW!!! Some drama here. I would love an adopted child just as much. I would adopt if I couldn’t have my own, LAST RESORT. People also adopt so they dont get fat,scars, or the pain. Adoption is great but I know people are different and some may not love an adoped child as much as there own blood and not to mention how much a woman can bond with a baby while she is pregnant. Not bond like KNOW them but I mean feel close to them. If the child is older when adopted I CAN understand not bonding as much with it. AGAIN nothing wrong with adoption. But tulip said some stuff that I can agree with. IM NOT TAKING SIDES

THANK YOU SUNNY!!!!!!! finally ONE INTELLIGENT PERSON ON HERE…have my doubts about the rest of you.

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Adoption is bittersweet: something negative happens but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the baby was unwanted in all cases. Women may have to make a tough choice that is the best for the situation…The fact that you were put up for adoption instead of aborted says something…so i don’t know if it’s fair to say adopted babies were completely unwanted. sometimes it’s a gray area-right thing wrong time.

tulip, oh please get off the cross, someone else need the wood

that pitiful martyr of yours act is such a crock of shit. first of all, no one asked you to “reveal you secret thoughts” so don’t act like we dragged some deep confidences from you.

secondly, if you’re going to purposefully use inflammatory statements in your posts like it’s better to aborts babies than adopt them out b/c no way can people love kids that aren’t biologically theirs, and call Maddox a “chink”, and making other statements you know are offensive simply b/c you like getting a reaction of out people, FROM THE START…then you are not hardly in a position to cry “oh boo hoo poor persectued innocent me.” YOU were the one who threw out the first offensive statements, and unless you are profoundly mentally damanged you surely knew what you were saying and how you were saying it was deliberately provocative and offensive…but i’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt and not just assume yoursuffer from chromosomal damange that may have affected your ability to properly socialize with others.

thirdly, to compare how people react to your racist and ignorant statments to JESUS’S PERSECUTION show how profoundly self-absorbed and ridiculous you are.

you’re obviously just to on here to stir up shit so you can enjoy the stink. congrats on being be complete sterotypical loser who trolls the net looking to pick fights simply to feel like you are a bit stuff hiding behind a computer screen

wow who knew Nicole Ritchie could get get the mud slinging started?

why don’t we all agree to disagree about adoption…some people are into it and some aren’t…

quick lets all kiss and make up and get back to bitching about celebs

Agreed, nicole needs to eat!!!

Let’s talk about how Nicole is skeletor and not about her adoption b/c her adoption can’t be seen by these pictures. We should only care and talk about physical appearances, duh.

Nicole lets have a lunch date and share a water. Yum, I can’t wait for that meal.

She looks good…Even though she is short she can wear fashion beacuse she is so thin now…but she probably looks bad in a swimsuit so she can’t win haha

uhh my boyfriend is chinese so the “chink” remark was awesome to read.  Also I would adopt chinese girls, I’m never having my own children because of the fat AND bc there are already too many people in this world.  I think people should seriously have to get permission to have kids. Like if they’re fucking incompetent morons they should get fixed.  And I’m not saying all adopted kids are fucked but I have two cousins that were adopted and holy crap, how bad they are really makes me not want to adopt.  Like they’re both freaking mental.

And I thought nicole dressed well when she was normal weight (not fat or anorexic), now she just wears ugly clothes that look like they’re from a thrift store.

TULIP: “I see a lot of similarities in my own character with that of jesus.”

I wonder if modern day Jesus would argue with strangers on message boards?
Honey, why don’t you just “turn the other cheek” after you make your point instead of coming back 4 times to waste space on a celebrity GOSSIP rag?

Forgive us sinners here on this blog, we no not what we do.  Peace

P.S. - Bitch

I come here to bitch about celebs I think deserve it, and instead I get a religious-racist zealot rambling on?.  Which is odd, cos I’m sure if Jesus was here today he wouldn’t be a racist pig, referring to children as “the black one or that chink one”. 

PS - I’m sure Nicole did the guy in the bathroom, and either can’t remember because she was so out if it, or remembers and just wishes she hadn’t done it.. wonder if there were any security cameras in the bathroom…

she totally did have sex with him, she’s a sick bitch. i mean look what she’s wearing, for shame!

“For the two individuals who were adopted, great that you had a good life but do realize that you were never wanted in the first place so dont you dare tell me I should have been aborted. It should have been you…”

Yo, bitch.  My biological parents were killed in a car accident when I was a baby.  They were married and wanted me very much.  And my adoptive parents wanted me, too.  I never said you should have been an abortion, skank, I called you a living brain donor, because you are ignorant and a tool on top of it all.  And don’t dare compare yourself with Jesus. Jesus wasn’t an ignorant jackass.

Now, onto Nicole Richie - who wants to chip in to buy her an oreo cookie and a glass of milk?

No wonder DJ AM went back to her, he’s trying to make her eat more than a piece of celery a day…must have the whole white knight in shining armor thing going, either that or he figured he didn’t want to bang a skeleton anymore…

In thi picture, Nicole looks like the little candy cane I had hanging on my tree last Christmas.

AgentHollywood, LOVE your avatar! I love Tiffany

Tulip, GO AWAY! YOU’RE FOUL!!! You love to stir shit up! You obviously need attention in your REAL life…it’s too bad you have to resort to a celebrity blog to get it. You have my pity.

One of Nicole Richie’s real parents is the brother of kick ass musician Sheila E. They were friends with Lionel I guess because of the whole musical background and he and his wife lovingly and willingly adopted her. But all the money and fame in the world couldn’t save poor Nicole and Lionel has even admitted to not always being there for his kids because he was so busy on tours.

My whole thing is if you’re going to adopt, try not to fuck it up. I mean really, you can fuck up your own child, but to adopt a child whose life is already fucked up because of having asshole idiots for parents or some rapist as a parent, is terrible. Seriously.

Anyways, I think Nicole did have sex in that bathroom but she was probably so coked up that she had no idea what was going on. I’m sure Nicole has had lots of sex like the previously mentioned. I’m surprised she or Paris haven’t caught an STD yet.

Tulip, you really got the point, except that jesus stuff was hilarious. I just can´t understand why people are always turning such conversations racist issues. Racism and narrowmindness here and there. Yawn. Dont you guys have any conversational skills? Yes, I know this is a gossip site an supposed to hypocritical (oh, shes gotta eat, definitely gained..) but you really are ignoring Tulips point. I´m sick of twisting someones words and not even bother to think what she/he actually said. Get real and think for a change.

Sorry about the language and spelling, I dont speak English.

TULIP=FUCKIN, MORON, CUNT FACE, RACIST, IGNORANT, BRAINLESS, DOUCHE BAG THAT DOES NOT DESERVE TO BE ON THE SAME PLANET WITH ANY OF US. SHE IS THE ONLY ONE HERE WHO SHOULD HAVE BEEN ABORTED BECAUSE IF HER PARENTS KNOW HOW STUPID SHE WAS I AM SURE THEY WOULD HIDE THERE HEADS IN SHAME. FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR PARENTS, BUT, THEN AGAIN HOW COULD THEY RAISE SUCH A IGNORANT PERSON?

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Thats tulips email, if anyone wants to REALLY tell her how ya feel!!

good one who cares?? i am sure she will recieve all the hate mail she can handle.

I also wish that the boards didn’t turn into discussions like this, but I am similarly infuriated after reading the statements made by Tulip. My parents had two natural children (my brother and I) and then adopted my sister from Korea, even though they could have had another child biologically. It doesn’t matter who my sister’s birth parents were or how they felt, because they are not her family. We are. It’s annoying enough when a well-meaning says “Is she your real sister?” OF COURSE! I can’t even imagine my life without my sister, and I won’t try to defend her by telling you how much our parents love her. It would only cheapen it. I am not going to make personal attacks against Tulip, as much as I’d like to, because it will not make her understand. Unfortunately, I’m not sure anything would.

With that said, I wish I could just come here and read the celebrity gossip without having to hear crazy people ranting about how babies should be aborted rather than adopted. I’m all for free speech but if you know you are just being inflammatory and hurting people’s feelings, could you keep it to yourself? We are supposed to be commenting on celebrities, not social issues.

i agree ellastar but i was so offended i just couldnt help myself. i my opinion tulip is a waste of space with a cold heart. personally, people like that should be mute and not able to speak there minds because all they do is hurt people and whatever may come out just sounds so stupid. it is uneducated people like tulip that keep ignorance going in this world.

Thanks jewels, she is really beautiful so underrated.

I’m sorry but I’m going to have to add more drama on the TULIP thing BUT I got to say something to this! I agree with you sonicboom TULIP is a waste of space and an uneducated douche bag who says stupid s**t! Yeah every one is entitled to say what they want etc “freedom of speech” blah blah.
“All the unwanted babies should be aborted” that’s the dumbest thing I ever heard!!  Couples go for fertility drugs first AND adoption is the last resort? HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT?MAYBE YOU SHOULD CHECK OUT “ADOPTION STORIES” Maybe some of the people think the drugs work faster than adoption. Adoption is lengthy process. “LEIA” TULIP said “that black baby, and the chink” TULIP was the one who turned this racial!  There WAS/IS no reason for that at all.  “Racism and narrowmindness here and there. Yawn. Don’t you guys have any conversational skills?” Get real and think for a change” 
Who are you saying that to? Hopefully to “TULIP” and not the rest of the board! Back to TULIP:
“Maybe because you lack the comprehension skills to figure this out” this coming from someone that speaks out of their ass! But wait it gets better: “I don’t see whets so funny with me comparing myself to Jesus—-> we are both truth tellers and we both endure the punishment of society’s disapproval of us. I see a lot of similarities in my own character with that of Jesus. I wouldn’t be surprised if indeed I’m part of that family lineage.”
And where HOLY TULIP did you get the “truth” from? Endure punishment? Don’t EVER compare the punishment/character of JESUS to yours.  JESUS is nothing like you he never said hateful, moronic things like you have. Man, you must be REALLY “retarded” The one with the “messed up adopted” cousins maybe it’s the parenting that’s messed up. Oh no! How dare I say that? It’s always the adoptees fault since they aren’t “ blood”! Yeah right!”
I myself also know a lot of adoptees who are happy with their lives and thankful for a CHANCE in life! and people WITH their own babies also adopt as well!! You don’t know that all adoptees were unwanted maybe the parents couldn’t provide a good life for them or like the post that said their parents were killed in an accident.I’M NOT ADOPTED AND IF I WAS I WOULD BE GRATEFUL FOR THE FAMILY THAT GAVE ME A CHANCE! You call every one else ignorant and stupid…. but look at yourself. YOU TULIP WILL ALWAYS BE A DIPS**T CUNT BAG! NOTHING WILL CHANGE THAT! Sorry SONICBOOM that I used your “words” but I say “CUNT BAG” for stupid girls such as TULIP.

whoooooooa, HEAVENLYDIVINE: I dont recall ever calling anyone on here STUPID, infact, other people were the FIRST to call me names. Congradulations, you made that list.

About adoptions, I didnt say ALL adoptions, I was referring to MANY adoptions. You think I lack validity in saying “all the unwanted babies should be aborted”??? Guess what buddy, you are living in a freakin bubble of happiness while MANY , and i say, MANY orphaned children AROUND THE WORLD live in PURE misery. Walk your ass into a rural area russian orphanage: DO you know what you will see? no you dont, but I do because I have visited that area and it doesnt escape my mind the images of little kids trying to kill themselves with random shoelaces. I couldnt believe my eyes: the reality of orphanages that we DONT SEE. On TV we see these modest little orphanages with little children looking vulneralbe yet well fed, etc. You walk into a rural orphanage in a third world country or underdeveloped area, and you see for yourself that aborting these children was a better deal than living the miserable lives they were given. They are living in torture and nobody gives a fuck.

SO HEAVENLYDIVINE, since you seem to think ppl adopt purely for unselfish reasons, tell me why so many children are left unadopted throughout their childhood? Tell me why the hell you arent aware of miserable orphanage conditions around the world with children preferring death than life? Tell me why you think we still have child prostition in many parts of the world?? You think these children deserve this? I DONT THINK SO. SO tell me who is you cruel hearted one, ME OR YOU?? SO easy for you to talk about the miniscule number of ppl in the world that do adopt in comparison to the world population when in reality a MAJORITY (and no I didnt say ALL) ppl prefer to raise their own blood b4 deciding to adopt someone elses.

I have said that Im glad adopted children find happy homes even though I made other points with it. Stop reading only what you want to read and ignoring other things I have said. I only wanted to state my real opinions even if they are not common and not optomistic in nature.

I am NOT A RACIST. I do not HATE ANY RACE but that doesnt stop me from pointing out stereotypes. Since when does calling the black baby black become a racist comment? ANd the asian kid might not be chinese but chink didnt sound degrading if you ask me. Now if I said, I hope that black girl burns , that would have been racist. Im not a racist, Im a realist.

Please do not get upset when I compare myself to Jesus. Both of us are compassionate about other human beings. I would rather see a child be aborted and go straight to heaven to enjoy that bless RATHER THEN BEING BORN and experiencing earthly HELL. You call me ignorant yet you are ignorant of the reality of many orphanages. THe only reality you know of are of the good outcomes you come across. Please get out of your bubble before someone like me has to pop a hole in it so you can see that the world is not a pretty place to live in afterall.

END OF DISCUSSION OF THIS TOPIC. MANY OF YOU ARE SIMPLY NOT EDUCATED ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE ALL THE TIME.

Tulip you are a dumb A$$! children are not simply subjects of DNA, you dont love the DNA of youre kids you love youre kids.

I’m adopted, and I’m damn proud of it. For awhile as a teenager I felt unwanted, but you know what? That’s not true. My parents gave up everything to adopt me. My dad had to quit his (well-paying) job so they could move to Atlanta. Mom had to transfer. They had to live with family for several months.
I’ve seen the photos from the day they picked me up from the hospital. They were crying. Not just my parents, but the nurses too. They went through all of that, and it wasn’t even guaranteed that they would get to keep me at that point.

They *are* my parents. They’re not my “adoptive” parents, they are my actual parents. Just because I don’t share the same genes as them means nothing. My parents would give their lives for me. My entire family loves me. I am not a burden on them, I am not troublesome. I am a member of my family, and that is all there is to it.

And my biological mother did not put me up for adoption because she didn’t want me. She put me up because she knew that she couldn’t take care of me. She did it out of LOVE.

And you know what? I plan on adopting my own children someday. And when I do, I will love them just as much as I love the rest of my family.

It greatly saddens me that there are still people in the world with this kind of view. I thought adoption was acceptable now, but there are still people out there this ignorant about adoption. It’s tragic.

Rock Royalty?  Have we degenerated so far as to fall back to kowtowing to people simply because they were born right?  After all the progress we’ve made it’s pitiful.  Lenin and Cromwell both knew what to do with royalty.

“END OF DISCUSSION OF THIS TOPIC. MANY OF YOU ARE SIMPLY NOT EDUCATED ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE ALL THE TIME.”

Only one here uneducated is you, tulip.  You are an uneducated troll.  And YOU don’t decide when you’re in too deep and want the conversation to end.  You started it, deal with the results.  Don’t wallow in your ignorance and think you know it all, because you really don’t.  My parents, the people who adopted me, loved me enough to send me through school to get a Masters degree.  I’m currently bartending part time to help pay for my PhD.  I hardly consider myself ignorant.  Do I think I’m better than someone else because I have an education?  Nope.  But I’m also not the one spouting nonsense on the internet and calling everyone who doesn’t agree with my twisted sense of the world ignorant.

And Nicole Richie is no more rock royalty than I am.  At least my dad didn’t sing “Say You Say Me”.

Nicole is Music Royalty buy blood.  Her aunt is Sheila E. (played with Prince for years), and her grandfather is world-renowned jazz percussionist Pete Escovedo.

As far as the bathroom sex comment, who knows…

I think Jesus is rolling over in his grave right now (or up in Heaven or whatever) at being compared to Tulip.

In fact, i think Jesus would probably want to bitch-slap about 90% of so-called “Christians” these days.

LMAO@tulip thinking they get to decide when a conversatin is over!

honey, you’re the one who stirred up the hornet’s nest, you’re hardly in a position it arbitrate when people are finished talking about it

Here here Keely…what a true comment

“Nicole is Music Royalty buy blood.  Her aunt is Sheila E. (played with Prince for years), and her grandfather is world-renowned jazz percussionist Pete Escovedo.”

still not “rock royalty”.  There are few, if any, people who can wear that title and Nicole Richie isn’t one of them.

TULIP, I’m so hurt that I made your stupid list and that you burst my “bubble”!
First of all:  I know about the orphanages around the world yet you never mentioned it when you came to spew out all those stupid things in your first post.  And the orphans aren’t the only ones that have it bad in THIRD WORLD, UNDERDEVELOPED AREAS! there are people who are also struggling and maybe even thinking about death in those countries. I know the world isn’t one BIG HAPPY place wish it was but it isn’t. I knew that, I didn’t need some ass to tell me that. I learned that when I was young .I’m not Jessica Simpson here who can’t tell the difference between the basic tuna or chicken!

Second, I didn’t call you a racist I said “TULIP” made it racial with those remarks. Those remarks are RACIAL SLURS!! STEREOTYPES: All gays are rich and tip well or ALL Hispanics eat rice and beans and ALL Jews are cheap and eat bagels etc. (I don’t want to offend anyone but those are the common stereotypes). “Racism and narrow mindess here and there. Yawn, get real and think for a change” IS what LEIA said and I asked who she was referring that to because LEIA claimed the board was missing your (TULIP) point etc. Now you bring up child prostitution! So are ALL orphans in the THIRD WORLD, UNDERDEVELOPED regions doomed to abuse and will never be adopted?

And you are asking me who’s the cruel hearted one here, you or me? How funny is that? First I’m far from the cruel hearted one so my guess is you. Cruel hearted is knowing about something and not doing anything about it and calling Jolies kids by their ethnicity even though you knew it was a boy and a girl. Cruel hearted is saying all adoptees are unwanted children and will never be loved the same. I give money to charity and the homeless, I volunteer.  I love to shop I have so much clothing that INSTEAD of throwing it away or selling it I GIVE it away to needy and I always will.  For H. Katrina I got a flatbed @ SAMS CLUB full of food and diapers, formula. And I WILL ADOPT EVEN AFTER MY OWN KIDS BECAUSE THAT’S SOMETHING I WANTED TO DO SINCE I WAS A LITTLE GIRL BECAUSE I WAS AWARE OF THE ORPHANAGE PROBLEMS!! So TULIP don’t tell me I’m cruel hearted!

You couldn’t take the “heat” so now you are changing your story around. Now you say “I said many, not all and THIRD WORLD this and that etc”. Your 1st post is what got the board to sound off on you. You are trying to be the victim in all of this like you spoke the truth and everyone is out to get you now. You sure are a silly bitch and a cunt bag
I said to watch adoption stories meaning: so you can see the love and that not all would be parents think FERTILITY DRUGS first then last RESORT adoption. Maybe I should have spelled it out for you.
And my life is not all about good outcomes I dealt with hardships also just like anyone else.  You TULIP still are the uneducated cruel hearted one not me.  This is HOLLYWOOD RAG so we rag on stars etc not rag on adoption!  Go learn how to spell (I saw many mistakes coming for the SUPER EDUCATED TULIP) and HOW NOT to speak out of your ASS very different from being “truthful” and a realist.
NOW I’M DONE WITH YOU! LATER TULIP, SUCKS TO BE YOU!

My sister and brother in law feel adoption is their first choice, since he was adopted, he would like to give a kid a chance, like he had.  And they could have their children biologically if they wanted.

heavenlydivine, you are still at it? Didnt realize that this was an essay contest. I make spelling mistakes because I dont care to type and check my work on a freakin post!!!! Im not that anal like you. Didnt realize that perfect grammar and spelling on a website determined your education level. THis would make you a middle school grad, huh?

You read into what you want to read into and turn a blind eye to other things I have said to make it seem like I am a cruel uneducated person.
I made very important points and I can look up statistics to back up my claims anyday, whereas you cannot because you speak from the “heart” not from the logical portions of your brain.

If I couldnt take the heat I wouldnt respond to you right now. Apparently, I can take the heat but I wanted to end this topic because most ppl on here LIKE YOU havent got a clue about the reality of things. You still live in a bubble. You volunteered. great. I have too. You have had bad experiences. I have witnessed them too. Does this make you somehow more noble and omnipotent?

About the racial comments: I could have called her children , that boy and girl but I wanted to be as specific as possibly since I couldnt remember their names. So I used a racial stereotype for the asian kid but I didnt use one for the black girl. Anyways, ppl are so uptight about racial comments that it has seriously segregated this country racially. Its foolish that ppl like you make a big deal out of racial sensitivity when we could all relax and take a joke.

About your decision to adopt: I hope there is some governmental prevention because you seem emotionally unstable. I don’t know what the heck you might do to those kids and then I would wonder why the heck she was so anti-abortion in the first place. You make the point that you would adopt AFTER YOUR OWN KIDS showing quite clearly my original point: ppl prefer to have their OWN KIDS first and foremost. SO perhaps I should be the one spelling things out for you. How can you argue with me when you basically proove my point about adoptions….

Im going onto other posts for because there is nothing to debate with a goody-2-shoe who thinks she is the answers to everyone’s prayers. You donate your clothes, bed, and its time to donate your brain….

OMG doesn’t anyone care that Nicole Richie had drunken, coked up sex with that guy whose-name-I’m-too-lazy-too-scroll-up-to-type in a public bathroom. Dudes! That’s like where you or I could be if we had to do an emergency dropping the kids (the adopted ones) off at the pool. The though that Nicole and that guy’s bits of fluids are strolling around on bathroom seats is scary in itself.

And Tulip, I didn’t know Jesus was pro-abortion. I wish I would have known, I would have never voted for Bush.

She doesn’t like the bathroom sex because nobody won’t make sex with her not even in the bathroom.

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